Comments on: HOW MUCH ENERGY DOES ANGER GET? http://hope4ella.com/2010/10/how-much-energy-does-anger-get/ Sun, 05 Jun 2011 04:03:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Sara http://hope4ella.com/2010/10/how-much-energy-does-anger-get/comment-page-1/#comment-199 Sara Tue, 12 Oct 2010 00:15:16 +0000 http://hope4ella.com/?p=135#comment-199 WOW! My heart sank at the terrible news, and then rose at the good news. Bottom line, shame on the person for making such a horrible mistake by mislabeling. This is a persons life we're talking about here, and it felt like they were saying, "oh well, it is what it is." My husband-to-be, in the last two years, has had several misdiagnoses, that almost cost them his life. Thank goodness, a cardiologist stepped in and could tell us what was REALLY going on. I will forever keep you and Ella in my daily prayers, and will follow your posts until the day she awakes, and any after that. Stay strong, continue reaching out to all of the support, and lean on it as hard and as often as you can. That's what we're here for. Love Always, Sara Dudley WOW! My heart sank at the terrible news, and then rose at the good news. Bottom line, shame on the person for making such a horrible mistake by mislabeling. This is a persons life we’re talking about here, and it felt like they were saying, “oh well, it is what it is.”

My husband-to-be, in the last two years, has had several misdiagnoses, that almost cost them his life. Thank goodness, a cardiologist stepped in and could tell us what was REALLY going on.

I will forever keep you and Ella in my daily prayers, and will follow your posts until the day she awakes, and any after that. Stay strong, continue reaching out to all of the support, and lean on it as hard and as often as you can. That’s what we’re here for.

Love Always,
Sara Dudley

]]> By: Santa Rosa Community Market (Nica) http://hope4ella.com/2010/10/how-much-energy-does-anger-get/comment-page-1/#comment-197 Santa Rosa Community Market (Nica) Mon, 11 Oct 2010 23:07:42 +0000 http://hope4ella.com/?p=135#comment-197 Every single day I come into work I feel so incredibly honored to dedicate hours to helping little Ella. I just wanted you all to know that that support does not end after "Hope for Ella Day", that I will personally continue to fight for her, both in my heart and within the community. I will write letters of complaint to the doctors who made this unforgivable error, and thank you letters to those who sacrificed something to save her. Please don't hesitate to ask me for ANYTHING AT ANYTIME!!!! You are all in my heart, -Nica Every single day I come into work I feel so incredibly honored to dedicate hours to helping little Ella. I just wanted you all to know that that support does not end after “Hope for Ella Day”, that I will personally continue to fight for her, both in my heart and within the community. I will write letters of complaint to the doctors who made this unforgivable error, and thank you letters to those who sacrificed something to save her. Please don’t hesitate to ask me for ANYTHING AT ANYTIME!!!! You are all in my heart,

-Nica

]]> By: April Parrott http://hope4ella.com/2010/10/how-much-energy-does-anger-get/comment-page-1/#comment-194 April Parrott Mon, 11 Oct 2010 20:33:48 +0000 http://hope4ella.com/?p=135#comment-194 How much energy does anger get? Well... that is relative to the situation. When anger is tied to love the energy of that anger will try and match the love. Be angry... be whatever you want to be. Love knows no bounds. I am keeping Ella in my heart and thoughts. You too Glen and the rest of your family. Sincerely and with all my heart, April How much energy does anger get?

Well… that is relative to the situation. When anger is tied to love the energy of that anger will try and match the love. Be angry… be whatever you want to be. Love knows no bounds.

I am keeping Ella in my heart and thoughts. You too Glen and the rest of your family.

Sincerely and with all my heart,

April

]]> By: Carole Hamann http://hope4ella.com/2010/10/how-much-energy-does-anger-get/comment-page-1/#comment-191 Carole Hamann Mon, 11 Oct 2010 16:24:29 +0000 http://hope4ella.com/?p=135#comment-191 I'm the 'quilt lady' Glenn and Alycia...There is a warm spot in my heart for each of you and I've been traveling this journey with you through 'the Step' as Ella calls her step-Mom, Debbie. I work with Deb. You hang in there and remember to take care of yourselves too. Ella needs you to be your strong selves for her. There will be so much hard work ahead from each of you and I think it's wonderful that you are all such good team players for her. That in itself is a miracle and a gift to her. She can feel your love and support by some miracle even if she can't respond to you as she would want to. Just believe that. Your energy is so positive and healing for Ella as well as each other. It's in the air. You can feel it. There is a prayer stitched into every inch of the quilt. It's a healing binkie. Feel free to wrap yourselves in it too as you walk this journey together. The current news is great. All negative feelings aside. Rejoicing for Ella and you can take a deep breath and maybe get a nights sleep. We'll be talking..Carole I’m the ‘quilt lady’ Glenn and Alycia…There is a warm spot in my heart for each of you and I’ve been traveling this journey with you through ‘the Step’ as Ella calls her step-Mom, Debbie. I work with Deb. You hang in there and remember to take care of yourselves too. Ella needs you to be your strong selves for her. There will be so much hard work ahead from each of you and I think it’s wonderful that you are all such good team players for her. That in itself is a miracle and a gift to her. She can feel your love and support by some miracle even if she can’t respond to you as she would want to. Just believe that. Your energy is so positive and healing for Ella as well as each other. It’s in the air. You can feel it. There is a prayer stitched into every inch of the quilt. It’s a healing binkie. Feel free to wrap yourselves in it too as you walk this journey together. The current news is great. All negative feelings aside. Rejoicing for Ella and you can take a deep breath and maybe get a nights sleep. We’ll be talking..Carole

]]> By: admin http://hope4ella.com/2010/10/how-much-energy-does-anger-get/comment-page-1/#comment-186 admin Mon, 11 Oct 2010 06:18:09 +0000 http://hope4ella.com/?p=135#comment-186 For the record, I love and support you both, Glen & Alycia. Thank you both for allowing me the opportunity to be in your daughters life. I too miss Ella terribly. I know the pain & sadness that I feel, and how that probably compares to what Mark feels. Being helpless, watching our step-daughter in a coma for 6 weeks and sitting next to our spouse trying to help and understand what you as birth-parents must be going through and trying to determine what we can do to help. Nothing that we feel or can even imagine could compare to what you, Glen and Alycia, are feeling. All of the love I have for this amazing child could never be compared to the _____ {insert pretty much any word here} that you feel/have for this beautiful girl. No one truly understands what you are experiencing, and I hope they never have to. I love you both dearly, Deb {or as Ella would call me 'the Step' or 'the Red'} For the record, I love and support you both, Glen & Alycia. Thank you both for allowing me the opportunity to be in your daughters life. I too miss Ella terribly.

I know the pain & sadness that I feel, and how that probably compares to what Mark feels. Being helpless, watching our step-daughter in a coma for 6 weeks and sitting next to our spouse trying to help and understand what you as birth-parents must be going through and trying to determine what we can do to help.

Nothing that we feel or can even imagine could compare to what you, Glen and Alycia, are feeling. All of the love I have for this amazing child could never be compared to the _____ {insert pretty much any word here} that you feel/have for this beautiful girl.

No one truly understands what you are experiencing, and I hope they never have to.

I love you both dearly,
Deb
{or as Ella would call me ‘the Step’ or ‘the Red’}

]]> By: amy reed http://hope4ella.com/2010/10/how-much-energy-does-anger-get/comment-page-1/#comment-144 amy reed Sat, 09 Oct 2010 07:12:26 +0000 http://hope4ella.com/?p=135#comment-144 amazing. Thank you for the post amazing. Thank you for the post

]]> By: Alysson (Charter School mom) http://hope4ella.com/2010/10/how-much-energy-does-anger-get/comment-page-1/#comment-143 Alysson (Charter School mom) Sat, 09 Oct 2010 04:16:49 +0000 http://hope4ella.com/?p=135#comment-143 Wow! That is just fantastic news! I'm breathing a little easier than I have been for the last few days. Wow. Wow! That is just fantastic news! I’m breathing a little easier than I have been for the last few days.

Wow.

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